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My Brother Controlled My LifeFamilyMy Brother Controlled My Life<div class="ExternalClassE3041D2CFC534CEEB3A4A29463B527AF"><p style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);">​<span style="">I am feeling depressed because my 14 yr old brother is suicidal and was recently taken away for drug use and hitting my step dad. I don't know what to do cause he has controlled my life but I still love him.  </span></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span></div><div class="ExternalClass21143B3C9CFC4B56AE93CF26AB37AA4C"><div><div class="ExternalClassE3041D2CFC534CEEB3A4A29463B527AF"><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"><span>We are glad you have discovered our website and are reaching out tonight.  We understand the conflicting feelings you conveyed in your emails concerning your brother.  It sounds like there has been some very intense things going on with him and your family.  It also sounds like your relationship with him was very intense as well, and yes, you still love him.  It is ok to have different types of feelings in situations like this.  You are doing a great job recognizing them.  You mentioned in your email that your brother was suicidal and taking drugs,  and also hit your dad.  Sometimes, it is the best for everyone to have some time apart to let things settle down, allowing everyone time to process what is going on.  While you are missing your brother, love him, and are concerned for him, try to understand this time away and treatment could be healing for him.  While he is away, and anytime, we want you to know we are here for you.  We suggest reviewing the articles under the Tips section on the website, including “99 coping skills”.   The Tips link is at the top of the homepage.   </span></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"><span>You can also visit with a counselor on the phone 24/7 by dialing 1-800-448-3000.  Expressing your feelings and talking can help offer some relief by sharing the burden.  You may also discover options to your situation that you would not likely discover on your own. </span></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"><span>Stay brave, keep reaching out.  We look forward to you staying in touch with us.</span><br></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"><span>Sincerely,</span><br></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"><span>Larry – Counselor</span></p> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span> <span style="color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89);"> </span></div></div> </div>12

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