| My Mom Threatens Me | Abuse | My Mom Threatens Me | <div class="ExternalClassB410CA1FFB2A45A9B4F1EB9224A373BB"><p style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;"><span>I've been having problems with my mom. She's constantly verbally abusing me
and threatening to kill me and my pets. She said shes going to drag me out of
school when i'm 16 and put me to work because she doesn't believe that I will be
able to graduate. When I'm around her rage fills in my chest. It takes everything inside me not to hurt her. She threatens to move me away from my brothers
and sisters constantly and she has held a knife to my neck two times. I'm too scared to call the police and for some odd reason I don't want to because I don't
want to be taken away from my family but my brothers and sisters all said they
would let me live with them. I don't know what to do. </span></p>
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situation very well. It is very brave for you to let us know what you
going through especially when it involves family and how you are
treated. From what you are saying we are concerned
about you. It is completely understandable that you would be afraid
and angry toward your mom considering what you described of your situation. </span></p>
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are that you will reach out for help. There are a lot of options for support for you and your family. Our counselors can help you find referrals in your area.</span></p>
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aren’t sure of the outcome. We are proud of you for being so honest about what is going on. Please continue to reach out to our hotline or seek professional support to make sure you begin to get the
help you need so this situation can change. You deserve to feel safe in your
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