| I Don't Want To Live Without Her | Relationships | I Don't Want To Live Without Her | <div class="ExternalClass54465CA60E5B46019A8CD47911CFE877"><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style=""><span style="">My girlfriend has
left me for someone else because, she says, he makes her happy and I didn't. I
want her back so badly that I don't want to go on living without her. </span></span></p></div> | <div class="ExternalClass4606518F85504CA0ADCC275E2BAD4E2A"><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">We are glad you have decided to reach out to us today for support. We all go through situations where sometimes we need someone to talk to. It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of heartache right now. Relationships can be tough sometimes and they don't always work out. That can be very challenging to overcome. It can be especially hurtful when we care for someone deeply and they aren't reciprocating those same feelings or have begun to have feelings for someone else. There are times when others just won't feel how you will about them, and it hurts, but it is okay. It allows for the opportunity to find another person that does have the same feelings, and can treat you with the same love and respect you have for them. While it may seem like your darkest moment right now with all the pain you are feeling, sometimes these heartbreaking life events, can be best for both parties to find a healthy and happy relationship.</span></p><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">It certainly hurts to have someone end a relationship due to their changed feelings, but it truly can hurt just as bad if not more to be in a relationship with someone who is not fully present. You made a brave choice to reach out today to talk about how you are feeling. Suicide might seem like the only option you have to get away from the pain and conflict you are feeling, but in reality, it doesn't make things any better. It is permanent, so it takes away the option for you to have the opportunity to feel better and live your life to the fullest. If you feel that you are not able to keep yourself safe, reach out for support immediately. This can be by calling 911 or calling us here at the hotline. We are here to support you and talk to you about what is going on and what is causing you to feel this way. Please know there is help available. It can take time to find the best options, but suicide should not be one of those options. You deserve to give yourself the opportunity to find happiness, and to live the life you want. </span></p><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">Using healthy coping skills can you help get through difficult times. It can take time to find the best the options to heal and cope, but suicide should not be one of those options. For today, let's make a plan and a promise to keep you safe for now. Finding a different outlet to help you work through your feelings in a healthy way which would be a wise choice. This could be watching a movie, listening to music, doing an art project, or even taking a relaxing bath. I have also attached some tips from the </span><a href="http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.com/"><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">www.yourlifeyourvoice.com</span></a><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style=""> page that you may find helpful</span></p><p><a href="/Pages/tip-99-coping-skills.aspx"><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/v2/Pages/tip-99-coping-skills.aspx</span></a></p><p><a href="/Pages/tip-Suicidal-Thoughts.aspx"><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/v2/Pages/tip-Suicidal-Thoughts.aspx</span></a></p><p><a href="/Pages/tip-20-Questions-to-Ask-Yourself-if-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up.aspx"><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/v2/Pages/tip-20-Questions-to-Ask-Yourself-if-You-Feel-Like-Giving-Up.aspx</span></a><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">.</span></p><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">We want to be a support for you. Please reach out to us either by calling 1-800-448-3000, chat, text, or email us back. We will respond to emails within 24-48 hours. We are here to offer you support 24 hour a day, 7 days a week. Stay Strong!</span></p><p><span class="ms-rteFontFace-1 ms-rteFontSize-3 ms-rteThemeForeColor-2-4" style="">Brittany, Counselor</span></p></div> | 20 | | |
