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I Am Getting Put In The Middle

<div class="ExternalClassD5CACD021BEF4410902C35AC02780033">My friends are starting to fight and I am getting put in the middle and don't know what to do. </div>

<div class="ExternalClassADD7F8F5D4B342D5A2562F2D505BF612"><div><div class="ExternalClassD5CACD021BEF4410902C35AC02780033">We are glad you have discovered our website and are reaching out. It is very difficult to be in the middle of friendship fights. It is likely that all the individuals in your group will likely try to draw you to their side. To prevent being drawn side to side, it is important that you establish boundaries for yourself. If you wish to maintain the communication with all your friends, yet not be part of the battle, you can listen to your friends, be empathetic, yet not commit to either side of the battle. Simply acknowledging their feelings without committing to a side or opinion will allow you to stay in communication without being an active participant in the fights. If you are “cornered” into choosing sides, reflect on the friendship. Is it more important for them to have you as a friend, or are they looking for strength in their argument? We want you to know we are here for you. Sincerely, Larry – Counselor </div></div> </div>

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