Can't Move OnRelationshipsCan't Move On<div class="ExternalClass4148D9EAA42147ED94FC92B8A238AB03"><p style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;">​<span>I broke up with my boyfriend around 4 months ago. We fought a lot. He wondered why I broke up with him and thought I was going after another person. The real reason I broke up with him, besides him cheating on me, was because I was very suicidal. Which is now solved. But I didn't want to hurt him so I wanted him to be fine without me before I left him forever. We've talked and hooked up a little since then but nothing real. Now he won't reply to any of my texts and I can't move on from him. I've already had 2 relationship that didn't work out because they weren't him. I miss him so much and  often find myself scrolling through his Facebook and his families Facebook to look at pictures of him.</span></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;"> </span></div><div class="ExternalClass0C1D85C4958040909B62CDADC9D84320"><div><div class="ExternalClass4148D9EAA42147ED94FC92B8A238AB03"><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>We can certainly understand why you are feeling  so upset over this relationship.  It sounds like you were not in  a very good mental state at the time of the break up. We are happy to hear that you have been feeling better but can see how complicated and frustrating this has been for you.  </span></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>Since he isn’t responding to you it seems like he is sending you a clear message that he doesn’t want contact right now.  Maybe it would be good to give him some time and allow yourself time to heal. Stay away from Facebook for a while until you are feeling a little better.  Every time you scroll through his pictures or family pictures, you are only making this more difficult  for you to work through these emotions.  They are constant reminders of what you can’t have right now. It doesn’t mean that you won’t but it isn’t possible right now.  We are sorry about this. </span><br></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>Allowing yourself to be in a better place will allow you to see things more clearly. We understand that you may have feelings for him but from what you have said, the relationship didn’t really sound very healthy for either of you. With the cheating and fighting maybe it is a good thing for you two to spend some time apart from one another.  Again, heal mentally so you can have a healthy relationship with someone.  It makes a huge difference in how you communicate and relate to the other person. </span><br></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>Our counselors are here for you anytime.  We hope you will continue to reach out and get support.  Stay healthy.</span><br></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>Take care,</span><br></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;"><span>Naina, counselor</span></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;"> </span></div></div> </div>15

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