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There Is A Boy I Really LikeRelationshipsThere Is A Boy I Really Like<div class="ExternalClassB56D8AD820F74AB29DD09150484A50C8"><p style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;">​<span>There is this boy that I really like, but I seriously doubt that the feelings are mutual. Also I am pretty sure that he is dating someone and I am nervous to talk to him about anything other than school.  ​</span></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span></div><div class="ExternalClass6019BAD007414F55B2E0444560F91EBB"><div><div class="ExternalClassB56D8AD820F74AB29DD09150484A50C8"><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>It may be best if you just stick to talking to this boy about school.  Talk with him about what classes he likes, which ones are difficult and how he handles them.  Ask him if he plans to go to college and what he is interested in doing.  If he is in sports or clubs of any kind, ask him about those.</span></p> <span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>This is called "building a relationship."  Or sometimes called, starting a friendship.  If he enjoys talking to you, he will likely begin to look forward to talking with you and perhaps ask if the two of you can spend more time together because he thinks you are  fun.</span><br></p> <span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>It may be a BIG mistake to tell him straight out that you like him a lot.  It may scare him off.  Play it safe and begin a friendship and go from there.</span><br></p> <span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>Sincerely,</span></p> <span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><span style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"> </span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>Pat, Counselor </span></p> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span> <span style="font-size:16px;"> </span></div></div> </div>12

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