| He Doesn't Know I Like Him | Relationships | He Doesn't Know I Like Him | <div class="ExternalClassB25D6C016CE64DCD9D83E1D736085A3A"><p style="font-family:georgia;font-size:16px;"><span>There is this boy that I really like. We are friends and we have most of our classes together, but he has a
girlfriend. And it doesn't even seem like they are a couple because they are
never hanging out with each other. But if they were to break up it would be
really weird talking to him about me liking him because he doesn't know that I
like him and I would have a hard time saying what I need to say and I think it
would be uncomfortable. </span></p>
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</span></div> | <div class="ExternalClassCA4E0B81A8EB42E48C898BFCC84F9AA7"><div><div class="ExternalClassB25D6C016CE64DCD9D83E1D736085A3A"><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>The first stage
of getting to know someone is to be friends. Having things in common such
as classes and subjects are a great way to start and maintain
conversations. If you know more about him, like sports he enjoys, or what
his hobbies are, that would be a good way to strengthen your friendship.
Friendships go both ways so he shares information with you, and you in turn
should share with him. Eventually you will learn about his plans for the
summer and what his family is doing. The more you know about one another
and the more you share, the closer you become.</span></p>
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</span><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>We caution you
about telling him how you feel however. This can scare guys and make them
feel uncomfortable and when they are uncomfortable, they avoid the person or
situation that makes them feel that way. So, if you want to continue with
this friendship in hopes that some day it becomes something more, then perhaps
you should not tell him how you feel.</span><br></p>
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</span><p style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>He can tell you
like him or you wouldn't talk to him and learn about him and share
information with him and he with you. Don't risk making all of that go
away by telling him you like him. Believe me, he can tell by the way you
act.</span><br></p>
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</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>Sincerely,</span></p>
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</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:tahoma;font-size:16px;color:rgb(63, 63, 63);"><span>Pat, Counselor </span></p>
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