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Feelings

I Feel Unwanted

<div class="ExternalClass2AE1663ED83541129A19965CDA24C19C">I feel unwanted, empty. I have put up this fake face that I'm always happy and don't care but I care, I care too much. I am constantly being called fat and ugly and I hate it. I have never been so lonely than I am now. It makes me so sad and angry that I even contemplate about what my life is anymore. I thought that if I tried to get into a relationship that it would help the loneliness but every girl I've talked to just blows me off with a "lol" or "k" and then no response. I don't want to be lonely anymore. It makes me sad. It's like no one wants me and I'm left to rot like a piece of trash getting worse as it decays. </div>

<div class="ExternalClassD96947B8CD05435C9F49BD1A10439396"><div><div class="ExternalClass2AE1663ED83541129A19965CDA24C19C">We are glad you have discovered our website and are reaching out today. We can appreciate the sense of frustration and loneliness you conveyed in your email. We all desire and feel a need to belong, to feel important to others. We will do a lot of different things to get that sense of value from others, yet sometimes it just does not come, at least in the ways we try. You need to give yourself a pat on the back for reaching out to girls, it is unfortunate it did not work out. Actually, this can be a sort of learning process for you. Rather than putting forth your efforts to the outside, try putting some efforts towards the inside. Identify things that you like and like to do, even by yourself. As you discover things you like and like to do, then look for others that like and like to do the same things. You will start out with something in common, and genuine things you can share. Friends are much better source of companionship than “girlfriends” , especially if we are feeling like we have to have a girlfriend to have some enjoyment or fun. Work towards relieving the loneliness with a couple of friends first, and then see where you go from there. <a href="/Pages/tip-Making-Friends.aspx">http://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/v2/Pages/tip-Making-Friends.aspx</a> We want you to know we are here for you. Sincerely, Larry – Counselor </div></div> </div>

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