Hello,

Have you tried talking to your parents about how you feel?  You are not to blame for your parents divorce.  A divorce is a decision only made by parents, not by children.  Your parents are responsible and in charge of what happens, not you. 

Please know you are a very important person who is loved and will be listened to, and cared for by both your parents.  Even if your parents get divorced feel sure that someone will still fix breakfast in the morning, help you with your homework, and tuck you into bed at night.

If you Father has a drinking problem it is ok to ask him to get help.  He needs to hear that his drinking really hurts you.  There are many very helpful programs available to help your Father stop drinking.  He has to " want " the help though.  Hopefully talking with our hotline is helpful for you.  You can email or call our hotline 24/7 for help.  If you ever feel your safety is at risk and need immediate help call 911. 

You should only focus on doing well at school, having fun with friends, and letting your parents take care of their adult problems on their own.  Please keep in touch with us to let us know how you are doing.  We will wait to hear back from you.

Take care,

Michelle, Counselor