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Edited: 1/21/2010 3:14 PM by
Thoughts of Suicide

I have been having thoughts of suicide here lately. I just feel that if I am gone everyone around me will just keep living their lives normal like I wasn't even alive. I have been arguing alot lately with my mother and I have doen nothing but cried almost everyday. I am currently in a relationship, and sometimes my boyfriend and I have arguements , but most of the fights I have are with my mom. I get yelled at almost everyday for doing absolutely nothing wrong. I get up go to school and go to work and then either go home or go to my boyfriends house. I can't talk to anybody about this because they will just look at me like I am crazy and I don't know what to do. I do have some symptoms of being depressed. Actually I have alot of them I just dont know where to go from here or what to do. Please help me

Edited: 1/21/2010 3:15 PM by

Having thoughts of suicide is a serious concern. Life is full of people and things that cause us to feel sad, frustrated, depressed and many other strong emotions. When we are emotionally healthy, we can handle these times and feelings without the desperation of wanting to end our lives or considering suicide as an option.

There has got to be something each day that you find enjoyable and pleasurable in your life. Make time for it beginning today. If it is window shopping with friends, taking a long shower or bubble bath, watching a movie or exercising, there has got to be something. Do it every day just for you. Give your emotions a break from the unhappiness you are feeling daily.

Talk with someone you can trust about your thoughts of suicide, perhaps you a friend or an adult you can trust. Don't carry that emotional load by yourself. This again, is serious and we encourage you not to just ignore it. If you need help at a weak moment, call 911 if you cannot trust yourself to keep yourself safe.

Pat, Counselor