We are really proud of you for reaching out and asking for help.  It is sometimes hard to talk with parents about situations like this.  I am sorry that mom didn't give you the help that you are looking for.  Were you able to be honest with her about why you cut and how often you cut?  Can she see the cuts?  Does she understand the severity of this? 

If you feel like you haven't gotten anywhere with mom and you have been completely honest with her, try talking to someone at school (are you still in school?)  Like the school counselor.  If you are not in school, what about another adult that you trust like an aunt, grandparent, friend's parent.  Any person that you trust will be able to talk with mom about this. 

Are you still cutting?  You may not need a psychiatrist but rather just see a doctor to talk about what led up to the cutting.  What are you trying to solve by cutting and so forth? 

Don't give up reaching out to mom again.  Even though you may feel like you have been shot down, things could change.  Mom may have been totally caught off guard and did not know what to say.  Maybe she doesn't quite understand the whole picture. 

It is best to sit down with her at a time when there is nothing going on and you have her full attention.  Leave all drama and dramatic comments outside and just be real with her.  Tell her how you have been feeling and that you have turned to cutting to relieve the pain that you feel.  Let her ask you questions and tell her the truth. 

Let us know how this works.  If you need to talk to one of us here, give us a call anytime.  We are here 24/7.

Take care,
Naina, Counselor