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Edited: 6/16/2011 12:09 PM by
Need To Get My Grades Up
I'm scared about school! Lately my grades have been DOWN THE TOILET! I'm really scared! I'm getting less than 70 in all my academic class, and I'm freaking out! My parents don't seem to notice the report cards THAT THEY SIGN, but I'm not putting blame on anyone.
 
It has to be something I'm doing (or not doing). Everyone (both students AND teachers) tell me how smart I am particularly in History and Biology, but you wouldn't be able to tell by looking at my grades. I've been thinking about college, and I'm pursuing getting good enough grades for a school of music or conservatory, but my band director tells me I need good grades throughout high school (prominently 90s).
 
I'm FREAKING OUT! what if I flunk in high school, and don't get into a good college? What if I become a failure? I study, I pay attention in class (not always the easiest task), but the main problem seems to be homework, which I seem to be missing. There are so many distractions at home, and staying after with a teacher is so tiring.
 
I feel like there are two parts of my being: one that wants success, and will stop at nothing to get it, and then the half that just says "screw it, go home and play video games, who needs grades?", and they're constantly battling for supremacy over my conscious. how do I get my grades up for high school? HELP!
Edited: 6/16/2011 12:09 PM by

A reasonable concern you have here.  Grades are important, especially if you want to pursue some of the colleges you listed.  With that in mind, it is not too late to get back on track.  If your intelligence is something teachers pick up on  despite your lower grades, then it is obvious you have the potential.  Start next year determined to get yourself to the place that you want to be.

Do not let yourself fall behind by being proactive.  Talk to your teachers early on about how your previous year you did not do as well.  This way they can help you stay focused, on track, and get you additional help when, and if needed.

Try to enjoy your summer, and allow yourself to enjoy your video games.  Though, stop with that mentality of "screw it".  You have the potential, you want to make something of yourself, so do it.  This is in your hands, and you have control. 

If you feel your parents are not up to speed on how your grades have been dropping, then do not wait for them to mention it.  Instead, talk to them about your concerns so they are more aware for the year to come.

Hang in there, and do not give you.  You got this!

Best,
Mandi, Counselor