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Edited: 5/20/2010 3:16 PM by
My Mom Will Not Listen
i have no one i can really talk to, to understand what im going through. Im having trouble in school and my main thing is my teachers calling my mom and my mom is always on my back about how she is going to take away things from me like my phone laptop etc. I dont really mind that she does but its the fact that she doesnt give me a break to try instead she just yells at me. I really just want to runaway from my house i cant take her yellin at me and not actually being there to tell me "i really expect more from you its all on you to bring them up" but instead of saying that she yells saying how its all my fault im lying about everything and i just need her to be more comforting and i dont get that from her...i dont want to be here at this house i want to leave. I need someones advice to get  me through the day or basically the week. Thank You
Edited: 5/20/2010 3:17 PM by
Great job reaching out!  It isn't always easy to talk about what is going on but you did a great job in expressing yourself. 
 
Maybe sitting down with mom when the tension has cooled off would be a good time to talk to her. Letting mom know what you need is important.  You know what she needs and expects from you, right?  She expects you to work on making better grades.  Mom may not realize that you want the same thing but you also need her to be comforting and understanding.  Sometimes we all take things for granted and don't always make the best choices.  Sometimes we need someone to let us know that we love them and appreciate their help.  It is a two way street.
Tell mom what you need and treat her the way you want to be treated.  I bet you will start noticing a difference.
 
Running away is going to get you nowhere.  It is going to be a lot harder on the run or on the streets than it is at home.  Think about making a change at home before you decide to leave.
 
Remember, we are here for you and you can call us anytime if you would like to talk.
 
Take care,
Naina, Counselor