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Edited: 3/16/2010 12:07 PM by
Drama With 2 Girls
Hey Im not shure what to do. Theres alot of drama going on between me and 2 girls one is curently  my girl friend. I think this might be affecting my grades. Im not doing to good and school. I think this might be why. What should I do?
Edited: 3/16/2010 12:07 PM by

When you think about relationships--whatever they are, they are very tricky!  You can only control you and your behaviors.  Therefore, if you are finding that your grades are suffering, then you need to think of your options.  When you come up with your options--think of good and bad consequences for each option.  Sometimes when you have a problem such as this, its best to use some problem solving.  Then you can see (when you write this all out on paper) and come to a decision based on the best way for you to work on your grades--because after all, it sounds as if you have determined this to be of a great importance to you--you are right, grades are VERY important.  But whatever you choose, it will be difficult to start with.
Do you feel you can talk to your parents about your concerns? 
If you need to talk to someone, please know that you can call the hotline at 1-800-448-3000.  We have counselors available 24/7...and it may just help to talk.

Take care and let us know what you decide!

Kara, Counselor