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Edited: 3/16/2010 12:08 PM by
Are We On The Same Page?
i've liked this guy for about 6 years, and have been building up our friendship. we always hangout together from 3 to 10pm on week days, but dont see each other on weekends. we flirt a TON, but he hasnt mentioned anything to me about taking our relationship more seriously, even though he shows it. i get so confused when he acts like he doesnt even know me at school. i guess then, if he really likes me, or if im looking into it to much. please help.
Edited: 3/16/2010 12:08 PM by
Relationships can be confusing and difficult to keep.  Sometimes it may even feel like a job, you have to work at it constantly.  It appears that you and this boy know each very well and even enjoy hanging out with one another.  However, it appears your friend only wants to be your friend on his terms.  This is not a good quality to have in a friend.  A friend should enjoy your company whether you're alone with him or in a group.  Since he chooses to act like he doesn't know you while at school this is a BIG problem. One that deserves an answer,  think about asking him why he feels he can only talk to you when you two are alone??  Are the two of you not friends??  We have so much fun when we are together what's the difference? 

If he has a problem answering your simple questions then you may need to rethink your relationship.  It may be difficult for you to hear but it sounds as though your friendship may be one sided.

Let us know how things turn out for you.  Remember if you ever need to talk our counselors are here for you.  Give us a call anytime.

Good luck to you!

Pam