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Edited: 12/20/2011 11:18 AM by
It's Too Much To Handle

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 months. We're in love. The thing is. He's never at school. Always sluffing and getting high. He drug deals now too. He doesn't tell me anything anymore and it feels like were falling apart.

I'm not sure what to do. It hurts. So much. I love his friends they are mine too. They drag him down. I am trying to be understanding and loving. It's too much to handle now.

Edited: 12/20/2011 11:29 AM by

We're glad you found our website and decided to write to us today. The fact that you care about your boyfriend and value your relationship with him is great and shows us that you are understanding. However it also sounds like he's not making very good choices for himself right now. We're glad that you see a problem with the decisions he is making because that tells us you know they are wrong. Have you talked to him about the way you feel?

You have to know what is acceptable to you in a relationship and what's not. If he's doing things that you don't agree with he needs to know. That way he either makes the choice to change or risk losing a relationship with you.

Good luck with this,

Stephanie, Crisis Counselor
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