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Edited: 4/8/2010 2:47 PM
Taking Care of Me By Myself
My parents don't really tell me I'm anything. Its always "you used to do this" or "you used to be that" not "you are". Well, nothing positive at least. And don't mistake me for some overly dramatic teenager, I've watched my mother very closely and the way she reacts to others and to me and the family is very different. But I don't really care, when I tried to get help it was the worst time in my life, so I figure if this is better then it was, then why not? Why take medicine? Besides to ruin my liver and give me a false sense of happy? And counseling? Seriously! Those people need to learn to act like real people. Besides, I have a few people I talk to who don't run away from my messed up life. They help...

I am taking care of myself, as well as I possibly can.

Edited: 4/8/2010 2:48 PM

You may feel that counseling will not help, but it really can. They are real people who want to help those who are in need, and you might benefit from it. Medication is something that professionals might prescribe, but it is not for certain that they will. If they do, it is because they feel that it is something that can help you, not damage you. Think of it this way, if you had some serious heart problem and the doctor recommended you medication, you would take it. If you truly want help, then let those around you help you. You deserve to feel better than how you have been. If you really feel that your mom doesn't treat you fairly, then tell her. Write her a letter with all your emotions pouring into it, and leave it for her to read. Things can improve.
 
Great job seeking out people to talk with, that are dealing with similar situations. Seeing positive ways that they have coped will help you to stay strong, and not run away. If you need to talk to someone else, we are here for you too. If you deicide you want to talk with us directly, please feel free to give us a call anytime. 
 
Best,
Mandi, Counselor