Hotline Discusion Bullying
Edited: 5/15/2012 9:57 AM | |  | |
| I Stood Up Well, usually I would vent to a friend or my mom, but lately I feel like I'm invisible. One of my friends is making everyone hate me because I stood up to her for bullying some kids. There is also a guy who happens to be my ex boyfriend spreading lies about me. I hate going to school because I don't want to face them.
I feel so embarrassed all the time because i can't stop caring about someone who doesn't care about me. My best friend doesn't even seem to get it she just thinks I'm being dramatic. I can't even talk to my mom because she's too busy comparing me to my perfect older brother. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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| | Edited: 5/15/2012 9:57 AM | | | |
| It sounds like you are going through a rough time right now. At one point things were probably better for you. Sometimes you will go through periods when the behaviors and situations of others doesn't match what you need to feel good. It is during these times that you will need to rely on your values, self-esteem and belief in yourself.
Some things you have more control over than other. Talk to your mom about needing her support right now. Tell her how comparing you to your brother is hurtful. Let her know that you may need more time and encouragement. Often, people don't realize what someone is going through unless they tell them. Take a break from those people who are negative.
That doesn't mean you have to stop talking to them or excuse negative behavior. Just lean a little more on activities and friends who are more positive right now. Don't allow hurtful people to take your joy. Before you know it, things will turn around again and you will feel good about making it through. Hang in there!
Crisis Counselor,
Valerie
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