when i was 7 my mothers boyfriend had molested me. i told my grandmother and she went to my mother about it. my mother had to her boyfriends side for it as he had said no he hadnt touched me. i dont know why my mother would choose him over me. why would a 7 year old daughter lie about something like that? yes i know my mother loved him. but only beacuase he had money and he was a drugie and he drank. my mother was a major drinker. she also did drugs. so she took his side over mine so she wouldnt lose her "party" buddy. but they are now married and i dont care anymore about what happend beacuase i know what comes around goes around. but the man she married has looked at me like i was a grown women when i was only 9 and he has said quote on quote "you have really grown baby girl" as he was looking at my "chest" and looking me up and down. and my mother was standing right next to me. i have never talked to my mother about this beacuse i dont wantto hurt her although she lives in a diffrent state and i never hear from her and i have lost all total feelings for her. i just need to know what to do to forget all this. im tired of hearing similar stories from diffrent people and then all the memories come back. so please tell me what to do.