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Edited: 2/26/2010 1:02 PM
Scared to Tell
 im in alot of trouble... my boyfriend friend beats me up... im scared to tell my boyfriend because i know that my boyfriend is going to hurt his friend because we've been together for 2 years now and its hard to tell becasue im scared for the friend and i dont want to see nothing bad happen to my boyfriend
Edited: 2/26/2010 1:02 PM
I am glad you reached out.  You are in a scary and dangerous situation.  Nobody deserves to have another person physically hurt them or beat them.  Telling someone about this is very important.  You should feel safe when you are with your friends and boyfriend.  Try to be honest with him and express to him what is going on when the friend is not around.  This will get it off your chest and help build a stronger relationship between the two of you.      

If you are afraid to tell your boyfriend because of how he may react then try telling a trusted friend, a family member, or the police?  These people are here to support you and would be willing to get you help.  Communicating to others what is going on is important to get this to stop. 

If you would like to call and talk, we have counselors available 24/7 at 1-800-448-3000.  We hope to hear from you soon.          

Sincerely,
Sara, Crisis Counselor